middle-aged women must keep a clear head instead of doing things out of willfulness. they should be able to judge who is sincere and who is hypocritical. once they choose the hypocritical instead of the sincere out of carelessness, tragedy will definitely fall on them. in fact, one whim may decide whether they will live in heaven or stay in hell.
all women have one weak point—they are easily enchanted by mens flattery. therere numerous sweet-tongued men, but loyal ones are hard to find. they may use sweet words to flatter you or they may be soft-spoken and submissive, but that is when they are weak and in need of help. as soon as the situation is different, they may change immediately. we always think the weak is the reliable, but this is misleading. the weak may be pitiable, but not always reliable. reliability doesnt mean being weak or strong, but depends on whether one can master himself. if someone, when absent from home, does what he dares not do at home, then how can he be regarded as a trustworthy man?
the middle-aged women, with the exception of those who work at special posts, neednt fight too hard. instead, they should encourage men to temper themselves in this world. studying with ease, working with ease, living with ease and facing everything with ease are what middle-aged women should try to do. ease is the symbol of ever-lasting youth and also the glamour of all middle-aged women.
may all kindhearted women enjoy an easy life and ever-lasting youth!
translated by zhang baodan
june 20, ~
中文
人到中年是个坎,女人们会面临更多的考验。青春似乎还在,却容不得大意和放任。保持青春已如爬坡,任由衰老会一泻千里。吃青春饭的行业,则面临着重新择业和转行。
如今毕竟是灯红酒绿的时代。到处是闲花野草,到处有妩媚妖娆,搞得没有定力的男人们晕头转向、身不由已,从而让中年社会由衷地感到:女人不