inforpolitics,workingatcivilianpostsorasmilitaryofficialsaredifferentchoicesfordifferentchildren.someevenwanttobecomecheplayersanditissuchawonderfulcareerthatafterbecomingsucceful,theycanmakeplayingchearewardingprofeion..whyshouldwetryourbesttosendourchildrenabroadwheretherearesomanyuncertainties?what''sthepointofthesacrificeofourpreciousyouthtosendourchildrentosomewherethatmaybeheaven,orhell?
weshouldbemoderateatseekingwealth,forthereisnolimitforit.abillionaireeatsnomorethanthreemealsadayandsleeinonebedatnightwhileafamilylivingonameagersalarycanbeveryhayandhealthy.wemayfeelsometimesthattheluxuriousbeijingroastduckisnomoredeliciousthanthesimplepancakeswithshallots.onlywhentheykeepapeacefulheartcantheyfacebothfavorsandhumiliatiowithcomposure.
whatdothemiddle-agedwomenneedinordertomaintaintheiryouthanddoomeddecrepitude?finequalitiesandgoodmaers,confidenceandcalmne.don''tdotoomuchextrawork,don''ttireyourselvesout,andnevertryanythingbeyondyourcapacityandenergy.
what''smore,theyneedsecurityandfriendship.nomatterhowstrongamanis,heneedssuort;nomatterhowindependentawomanis,sheneedsbacking.theflowerygirlsmaycareaboutnothingbutamusement,andtheymaynotcoidereventhereliabilityandcapabilityofaman.middle-agedwomen,however,aremuchmorepractical,andtheyhavetofacetheloyaltyandcreativityofaman.whattheyareseekingisthemostloyal,themostreoible,themostpowerful,themostreliableandthemosttrustworthylovewhichisnearlyeternalandunchangeable.anykindofstrikemaywearawaytheiryouthwhichisoncegonenevertoreturn.
middle-agedwomenmustkeepaclearheaditeadofdoingthingsoutofwillfulne.theyshouldbeabletojudgewhoissincereandwhoishypocritical.oncetheychoosethehypocriticaliteadofthesincereoutofcarelee,tra