somewherearoundthistime,ialsoreceivedinformationconfirmingnewsstoriesaboutadaughter,sharonpettijohn,bornsharonleeblytheinkaascityin1941,toawomanmyfatherlaterdivorced.shesentcopiesofherbirthcertificate,herparents?marriagelicee,aphotoofmyfather,andalettertohermotherfrommyfatheraskingaboutyourbaby?tobetseywright,myformerchiefofstaffinthegovernor''soffice.i''msorrytosaythat,forwhateverreason,i''venevermether.
thisnewsbreakingin1993cameasashocktomother,whobythenhadbeenbattlingcancerforsometime,butshetookitallinstride.shesaidyoungpeopledidalotofthingsduringthedepreionandthewarthatpeopleinanothertimemightdisaroveof.whatmatteredwasthatmyfatherwastheloveofherlifeandshehadnodoubtofhisloveforher.whateverthefacts,that''sallsheneededtoknowasherownlifemovedtowarditsend.asforme,iwa''tquitesurewhattomakeofitall,butgiventhelifei抳eled,icouldhardlybesurprisedthatmyfatherwasmorecomplicatedthantheidealizedpicturesihadlivedwithfornearlyhalfacentury.
in1994,asweheadedforthecelebrationofthefiftiethaiversaryofd-day,severalnewaperspublishedastoryonmyfather''swarrecord,withaahotofhiminuniform.shortlyafterward,ireceivedaletterfromumbertobaronofnetcong,newjersey,recountinghisownexperiencesduringthewarandafter.hesaidthathewasayoungboyinitalywhentheamericaarrived,andthathelovedtogototheircamp,whereonesoldierinparticularbefriendedhim,givinghimcandyandshowinghimhowenginesworkedandhowtorepairthem.heknewhimonlyasbill.afterthewar,baroncametotheunitedstates,and,iiredbywhathehadlearnedfromthesoldierwhocalledhim"littlegijoe",?heopenedhisowngarageandstartedafamily.hetoldmehehadlivedtheamericandream,withathrivingbusineandthreechildren.hesaidheowedsomuchofhissucceinlifetothatyoungsoldier,buthadn''thadtheoortunitytosaygood-byethen,andhadoftenwonderedwhathadhaenedtohim.then,hesaid,"onm