in1996,thechildrenofoneofmyfather''ssisterscameforthefirsttimetoouraualfamilychristmaspartyatthewhitehouseandbroughtmeagift:thecondolencelettermyaunthadreceivedfromhercongreman,thegreatsamrayburn,aftermyfatherdied.it''sjustashortformletterandaearstohavebeensignedwiththeautopenoftheday,butihuggedthatletterwithallthegleeofasix-year-oldboygettinghisfirsttrainsetfromsantaclaus.ihungitinmyprivateofficeonthesecondfloorofthewhitehouse,andlookedatiteverynight.
shortlyafterileftthewhitehouse,iwasboardingtheusairshuttleinwashingtonfornewyorkwhenanairlineemployeestoedmetosaythathisstepfatherhadjusttoldhimhehadservedinthewarwithmyfatherandhadlikedhimverymuch.iaskedfortheoldvet''sphonenumberandaddre,andthemansaidhedidn''thaveitbutwouldgetittome.i''mstillwaiting,hopingtherewillbeonemorehumancoectiontomyfather.
attheendofmypresidency,ipickedafewecialplacestosaygoodbyeandthankstotheamericanpeople.oneofthemwaschicago,wherehillarywasborwhereiallbutclinchedthedemocraticnominationonst.patrick''sday1992;wheremanyofmymostardentsuortersliveandmanyofmymostimportantdomesticinitiativesincrime,welfare,andeducationwereprovedeffective;and,ofcourse,wheremyparentswenttoliveafterthewar.iusedtojokewithhillarythatifmyfather
hadn''tlosthislifeonthatrainymiourihighway,iwouldhavegrownupafewmilesfromherandweprobablyneverwouldhavemet.mylasteventwasinthepalmerhousehotel,sceneoftheonlyphotoihaveofmyparentstogether,takenjustbeforemothercamebacktohopein1946.aftertheeechandthegood-byes,iwentintoasmallroomwhereimetawoman,maryettarees,andhertwodaughters.shetoldmeshehadgrownupandgonetohighschoolwithmymother,thenhadgonenorthtoindianatoworkinawarindustry,married,stayed,andraisedherchildren.thenshegavemeanotherpreci